I got the following comment on one of my posts: What if you don’t want to fuck your wife anymore? Then what? You can’t push a rope up hill. Can’t afford to divorce and don’t want to leave the kids high and dry. Once a week? Fuck you. Not sure what the Once a week/Fuck […]
Red Pill Marriage – Cliff’s Notes (and a note on a future Podcast)
So I sometimes forget that I’ve been at this for a long time. It has been years for me since I felt that tugging malaise of a marriage and sex life falling into the doldrums as childreering became the focus. I’m far from a master at marriage or this Red Pill stuff, but I’ve come […]
Lose at Life, or, Win at Life?
What does yours most resemble? What changes need to be made? You get one shot… Lose at Life: a day in the life of Wake up Hit snooze Wake up 7 minutes later Hit snooze Wake up 7 minutes later Struggle to get out of bed, foggy head Grab a cup of coffee, eat Eggo out […]
8 Takeaways from Neil Strauss’s The Truth book
As I was figuring out my new marital paradigm in the age of young kids and swallowing the red pill I was taking in any quality resource that I could. These resources set the table for my own change, and helped to form the new foundation of my marriage. After getting through as much information […]
8 OK Cupid Hacks for Single or Divorced Dudes
First, let me answer the obvious question: “AMD, why are YOU writing about OK Cupid (OKC) and iDating? You don’t know jack on the topic!” I’m writing because I’ve worked with clients who think they are doing the right thing at internet dating, but are failing drastically. Some of these folks are readers, so I […]
Interview with Wife, Blogger, and Author Rebecca Watson on Low T Marriage
I’ve been a reader of Low T Wife (now rebranded as High T Marriage) Rebecca Watson for a while now. You’ll see her old brand link on my blogroll to the right (I need to do some spring cleaning and updates, but that’s a story for another day). Rebecca just released her first book, I […]
Sex in Marriage, or Lackthereof
One of the continuous things I see is married dudes being dissatisfied with their sex lives. If that’s you take what little comfort you can in knowing that it’s very common. You can find many forums out there on the topic, or articles written: Reddit r/DeadBedrooms Talk About Marriage – Sex in Marriage (many topics but lack […]
AMD 2014 Year in Review
Upon reflecting on 2014, it’s been one of the more interesting ones in my life. Some really exciting things happened in the Average Married Dad enterprises, and some really good things and some crappier things on the personal front. Many have been supporters and have been along for the ride, but here are some highlights: […]
What would you regret if you died tonight?
I’m coming off a most excellent day. Had meetings all day with one future employer. A phone interview with a second. Both much different than what I do now and something I would fit very well with other nice bennies and salary. Came home and grilled some grass fed tenderloin, and made my MIL feel like […]
Married (lack of) sex – you are your own worst enemy
I talk with married men both in real life and online and see a number of patterns emerge. First, many men are dissatisfied with the quantity of sex. Maybe the quality too, I’m not exactly sure, but it’s hard to be pissed about the quality, when you don’t have much to compare it to. It’s […]
