I haven’t been writing much at all. At least not here. Work as a Corporate Ladder Climber takes a lot of time. I do my best to be a good corporate soldier, but my happiness comes from simple things. Family. Sex. Nature. You know, the important stuff. So I’ve been happy given the obligations of […]
That time my wife lost her well paying job
This happened just a few years ago, I probably wrote about it before, but it illustrates how life can change on a dime and the importance of having your personal finances in order to mitigate the damage. We were about a year into our home ownership in a higher cost of living community. That meant […]
Adult movies for couples
[Note: this was originally published a couple years ago, reworked a few times, and now republished. The movies in here aren’t the latest, but still hold up really well.] Warning: Adult themed post ahead, youngsters better back out now (definitely NSFW)! Forgive the repost if you’ve read this before, I keep making minor updates over […]
What if you don’t want to fuck your wife anymore?
I got the following comment on one of my posts: What if you don’t want to fuck your wife anymore? Then what? You can’t push a rope up hill. Can’t afford to divorce and don’t want to leave the kids high and dry. Once a week? Fuck you. Not sure what the Once a week/Fuck […]
Red Pill Marriage – Cliff’s Notes (and a note on a future Podcast)
So I sometimes forget that I’ve been at this for a long time. It has been years for me since I felt that tugging malaise of a marriage and sex life falling into the doldrums as childreering became the focus. I’m far from a master at marriage or this Red Pill stuff, but I’ve come […]
You Must Make Relationship Time Without Kids
Our lives change when kids enter the mix. Gone are the care-free days we so frequently wasted with our partner, not appreciating how rare the would be once the drunk midgets came into our lives. The focus instantly changes from ‘You and Me’ to ‘Keep the babies alive and happy.’ I’m a family man through […]
Red Pill Marriage Resources
Going on my Red Pill journey Athol Kay was a beacon in the night. He had a whole variety of posts that he eventually turned into a great book (The Married Man Sex Life Primer – which, while a little corny at times, should be on everyone’s reading list, along with his other book The […]
Average Married Dad’s Holiday Shopping Ideas
I am not a big consumer or shopper, but when I do buy something, it is at Costco or Amazon. Costco is actually mostly groceries, but Amazon has yielded so many treasures. To be upfront, I get a small fee for any Amazon item bought, but it doesn’t cost you anything, so click on through […]
15 Years
I celebrated my 15 year wedding anniversary this week. We’ve been together nearly 18 years now. We’re good, but we’ve had our shares of ups and downs. We’re simply two different people. We have similar core values, though sometimes the periphery along those edges are are far apart. I suppose no matter who it is: […]
Separate Vacations – Two Weekends Straight
As a couple/family you make your own family traditions. Your growing-up family (mom/dad) traditions certainly help set the table, but it is really your choice. So shake stuff up if you want to, and set your own traditions. I’ll mention a few quick ones we’ve had very recently. First, we’ve established an annual “guys/girls” weekend with […]
