Skinny Husbands, Fat Wives

Sometimes you have a post you have no idea where it’s going when you start.  This is one of those posts. I’m guessing it’s a long road to nowhere..nowhere but fat bashing that is. [Edit: Now that it's done, if you suffer through the beginning, there is some redeeming qualities at the end - AMD]

Usually couples match up pretty close in body rank.  You usually see men or women matched up to their rank number within one or so, or at least at first.  So good looking man with good looking wife.  Fat man with fat wife.  Skinny athletic man with skinny athletic wife.  It makes for stable relationships when you’re generally close in body rank.  That’s why Athol’s plan for improvement of body rank is so basic… if you improve it forces the wife to improve…usually, so you (usually) both end up hotter and hotness and attraction leads to more sex. True story.

I’ve got a number of male friends who’ve put on a bunch of weight while their wives stayed generally the same, which is to say, pretty lean.  This “fat husband, skinny wife” routine is seen in a lot of television hows and seems to be the more socially accepted practice.  Here’s a list of shows I could think of off the top of my head:

  • King of Queens – Fat Doug and his loud mouthed hot wife
  • Sopranos – Tony and Carmella Soprano
  • Family Guy – Peter and Louis Griffen
  • Game of Thrones- King Robert Baratheon and Cersei Lannister
  • Fresh Prince of Bell Air – The dad and Vivian Banks (Fresh Prince’s uncle/aunt)

So with the exception of maybe Family Guy and King of Queen, both sitcoms, the fat guy/skinny wife works when the husband is a strong dude or has Alpha qualities.  One of my best friends is a big dude (6’6″) who got way fatter after college, and his wife is a skinny minny, but dude is an super confident AMOG and could punch well above his rank if he wanted to.  This is sort of beauty and the beast theme, and I think part of it is many women are ok having a big bear of a man since it makes them feel smaller and safe.  If you are a fat beta man, with a skinnier good looking woman, look out… ticking time bomb unless she is incredibly grounded and into you for other reasons.

“Jack Sprat could eat no fat, his wife could eat no lean”

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On the other end of the spectrum is something you rarely, if ever, see in sitcoms or shows but see it every day and that is the skinny husband, fat wife situation.  The reason you don’t see it in sitcoms is that it’s not funny, it’s sad.  And seeing it in real life is really sad too.  Now I totally get that women gain weight when they have kids and for many its tough to take off.  It can be done though, and many, many women get back to within sight at least of their pre-baby weight.  I’m not talking about the “average” woman who may carry a few extra pounds, but those that just say “fuck it” and eat their way into a MuMu as a preferred fashion statement.  Recognize that I believe there’s a big difference in those actively trying to get back to their fighting weight and simply struggling a little versus those who choose to simply throw in the towel and turn out to be mentally miserable (when being honest with themselves) and subsequently are miserable to their husband.

For a husband this is difficult territory as he’s afraid of the inevitable blow-up if he gives it to her straight, so instead Mr. Beta-Boy’s response is “No, I love you for who you are honey…I still think you look great!”  What else can he do?  And she doesn’t respect him.  How can you respect someone when you can’t respect yourself.  He’s married to a pig, and therefore he’s a pig-lover.  How can she respect a motherfuckin’ pig lover? That’s just sick!  This miserable cycle just continues on, she busts his balls, doesn’t respect him, and he’s walking on eggshells and acts even more beta.  I  can almost guarantee you men in this situation aren’t getting “laid like tile” and are getting, at best, crappy drip fed sex.

Their wives don’t see this pig-lover as having a shot at anyone better than them, so why should they shape up their act, sex up their man properly, appreciate their man properly and lose weight?  You can’t really call it baby weight when your “baby” is 9 years old.  One of Holly’s old boss’s had a wife like this.  She was pretty heavy, always seemed really insecure to me and sort of a battle axe, but who knows what she was really like in private (I’m betting my paycheck on l0w-sex battle axe).  Her boss, this sow’s husband, was a lean mean triathlete type and they always looked odd together.

However, despite men having less attraction for their fat wives, most won’t leave.  Some stay for the kids, some because they hold out hope she’ll turn things around, but most just don’t really think very highly of their own options or have stopped caring enough t0 put in the effort.  Take for example this article on some UK rag website by Samantha Brick (who is hated by the fat acceptance movement and admittedly is a bitch I guess, but supports my thesis for today): My Husband Says He’ll Divorce Me if I Get Fat.

You see, in my household being slim isn’t something to aspire to — it’s an obligation. As Pascal likes to remind me: ‘I married you because you’re slim — I don’t want a fat wife.’

When I read in a recent survey that 42 per cent of men would be less attracted to their girlfriend if she gained half a stone, it didn’t surprise me. What did astonish me was only 5 per cent of men said they’d leave the ­relationship.

For in my marriage, the brutal truth is: if I get fat my husband will most definitely divorce me.

Or this one: Help my wife is FAT!

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I barely got married 3 years ago and in short time span I’ve watched my wife balloon up by at least 30 pounds.

I haven’t said anything yet because I don’t want to hurt her feelings.  … I don’t want this fat wife, I want the hot wife I married.

Or this pulled from the GodLikeProduction forums:

I don’t have the balls to divorce my fat wife — afraid of what that would do to me financially — and don’t want to lose my kids.

But sometimes I dream of what it would be like to reenter the dating scene.

I am very fit, jog daily and work out regularly. Very young looking 35. I could easily get an attractive girl. Have had many opportunities, but I could never bring myself to cheat.

My wife, while 3 years my younger looks like she’s 50 — gained 100 lbs since we married. Very lazy and unmotivated to do anything. She is no longer the woman I fell in love with. Can’t bear the thought of sex with her.

Men like women who look like women, not Jabba the hutt.  Fat is fucking gross.

jabba-the-hut-girl

 

We can live with curves, hell some of us prefer curves and a nice round booty.  But when the body rank discrepancy is high and you’re kicking ass and your wife is fat and not doing anything about it, it can be a tough road to hoe.  I’ve followed multiple threads on my “man forum” about fat wives and how they just grin and bear it… but a few of those contributors admitted that for their life, they had enough and got out.

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Change has to come from within.  You, as a husband, can’t make your wife thin by wishing it or verbally beating her up or encouraging her.  She has to want it.  You can alpha up and improve yourself but sometimes it’s either deal with having a fat wife for the kids or because you are religious or whatever… or pull the rip cord.  Ironically, after you leave or get divorced will be when she “gets in the best shape of her life”.  What a bitch!  Seriously that is just a total bitch move.

So my advice for everyone: Eat Better!  Abs are made in the kitchen.  You need to create new triggers and new habits [I'm reading two great books right now that I'll summarize in upcoming post(s): The Talent Code: Greatness Isn't Born. It's Grown. and The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business] to reprogram yourself. It’s resetting the norm for you.  I always point people to MarksDailyApple, which as a great Success Story page with many people with fat or health problems that got better by eating better and exercising….some really amazing transformations.  Robb Wolf is another great resource.  If you are fat or obese, I highly recommend low carb, whole food (real meats and lots of veggies) diet – as Wolf says:

low carb is fantastic for the insulin resistant individual, as it addresses both glycemic load and satiety.

Translated, that means if you currently eat a lot of sugar and flour and are headed towards the ‘betes (diabetes that is), and are hungry a lot and have a lot of sugar rushes and crashes, this diet is good for you as it makes you feel full while keeping a steady source of energy from proteins and fats (not sugars).  Once things are set, you may be having such great success dropping pounds you stick with this.  By low carb I mean less than 50 g per day.  MarksDailyApple the book (AKA The Primal Blueprint) gets into this as well.

Anyway, good luck for those of you who stumbled here because your wife is fat and you’re unhappy.  All you can do is control your own behaviors and actions, you can’t control others.  It’s up to you to have the “come to Jesus” conversation with your wife (stop being so afraid and really give it to her about what you feel about her fat/eating habits and what it means to your marriage), and if it get’s to be something that impacts your quality of life enough, don’t be afraid to make drastic changes (separation or divorce) as you only live once.  And for those starting the journey to be thinner, make a commitment and make it happen.  Don’t get discouraged by the setbacks, be cognicent that your bad eating habits have a trigger and reset the trigger. The Power of Habit book (which has over 1,000 Amazon reviews, most 5 or 4 stars) really is a great place to start in resetting things.  Best of luck my friends, some of you need it.

42 Responses to Skinny Husbands, Fat Wives

  1. The women who demand unconditional love, are the ones that don’t meet the conditions.

  2. +1 on MDA. Great post. I don’t understand the fat acceptance movement. If people accepted others being fat, and people accepted their own fat, then no one would ever need a diet or ever have to worry about it. But obviously, people don’t accept other people being fat. Even subconsciously we make judgments based on appearance. It’s basic human nature.

    And some people don’t accept their own fatness, which is why they change up how they eat and move and do something about it.

    Would it be great if people didn’t have to worry about such things? No, not really, because we are not radically autonomous individuals impervious to the opinions and censure of others for our bad behavior. We are social beings who want love and acceptance, but by God it doesn’t come easy. Everything good you have in life comes from the choices you make, pick your path: sobriety, clean eating, deciding not to steal/rape/murder – some vices are easier to avoid then others, but we all have to pick a line to walk and unfortunately some have a narrower path then others. Worry, shame, and censure do have some positive function in our social milieu.

  3. Love it. Great post.

    I think the ideal situation, most guys who have a good alpha-beta balance, and take care of their own shit i.e., their not fat slobs; their wives will likely follow suit naturally.

  4. Man, have you been spying on me or something? This is my life! I met my cute cheerleader wife at 18. She was 5’3″/130 lbs and I was 5’11″/185 lbs. A few years later she got pregnant and had to quit the squad for safety reasons (obviously). She gained a lot of weight while pregnant, but I was naive and assumed it was just baby weight. After my daughter was born, I couldn’t believe how much of the weight was still there and started to panic. She lost some of the weight with breastfeeding, but she wasn’t down to her old weight (maybe up 20 to 30 lbs). I didn’t want to be an ass and expect her to loose it all that quickly, so I let it slide. We were married a year later and she was pregnant within another year.

    With baby 2 came even more weight. Over the years she just kept getting heavier and heavier. After 15 years of marriage she is now 130 lbs overweight (officially morbidly obese). It’s like I’m married to the beautiful women I met plus a 130 lbs fat monster that has wrapped itself around her.

    She wants sex all of the time, but I can’t look at her naked. It’s causing problems in our marriage because I never “feel like it”.

    I have no problem with divorce, but I will not live without having my kids with me full time and there is no way she will let me have custody. As it is, I’m biding my time until the kids have moved out. I would love to continue to stay married to my wife if she could get herself together, but without physical attraction, we are just two friends living together and raising kids.

    As a footnote, I’m actually in better shape now than I was when we met thanks to HIIT and sports. I look forward to a life of hiking, sports, fitness and health. I don’t see that future with my current wife. All I can do is continue to improve myself and hope it will somehow rub off on her.

    • I’m terribly sorry about your situation, that must really be a tough spot to be in. I hope that you can find the strength to find have a frank discussion with her before it’s too late and hope she takes it to heart. Just finished with Athol Kay’s new book and had some ideas on reaching an ultimatum. I hope for you that it happens before the kids leave as divorce sucks. But we deserve to be happy and married to someone who behaves and looks somewhat similar to who we married. If not, pulling a ripcord and bailing isn’t unwarranted in my opinion. Good luck with your fat wife.

    • It sounds like you’re very active, have you tried to incorporate your family into the physical activities you like? Is there an imbalance in the work load here? Sounds like you need to help motivate her to get fit and change up the diet in the house. Have a heart to heart with your wife and explain you want her to get healthy for your family and for your marriage. She’s putting herself up to health risks that could threaten how long she’ll be around to see her kids grow up.

    • > She was 5’3″/130 lbs

      The was a piglet to begin with. And you’re surprised now with the sow?

  5. Hi there Fat Single Woman who is losing weight here,

    What happens when a wife who is lets say 35lbs pounds overweight has a husband who otherwise caring is embarrassed by her weight, ashamed to be seen with her, complains about it, can’t get an erection because he’s not attracted to her…. grins and bears it. Doesn’t touch her or hug her, hardly talks to her and pleads with her to lose weight and bring back the woman he married.

    What happens when she loses that weight. I read the weight loss blogs….
    wife loses the weight… husband starts to say hello when he comes in, smiles at her, hugs her, talks to her. Takes her on dates, takes her to the office party, introduces her to everyone wants to show her off.
    Starts to hug her when she passes by in the kitchen.
    Is finally excited about sex again and can’t wait to touch her… except he wants her to want it AND be enthusiastic and happy about it.
    When just 4 months ago she was repulsed by it.

    What is she supposed to do? Say “yes take me now”. How does this work or is it that most likely she will be happier with herself and want sex too?
    I don’t know I must be a curmudgeon because once I see that’s happening I would be very resentful and he would pickup on that. And I’ be the one repulsed by his touch.

    • There may certainly be some resentment on your part towards him. Bottom line is you are attracted to what you’re attracted to. As the pounds come off he is more attracted to you and behaves accordingly. Do you have a right to be resentful towards him? Sure, but does it do you any good? Be thankful that you are becoming a better version of yourself and revel in that version. I find hanging on to negativity is counter productive.

      This is no different than how men who lose weight and become better leaders in their family can feel resentful that they had to put in effort to gain the respect and attraction of their wives… it is better to focus on the present, and future than to dwell on the past.

      You can’t fight evolutionary psychology if you are honest with yourself. Men are attracted to healthy weight women and youth and a wife who is enthusiastic about sex, and women are attracted to Alpha qualities which include social behavior, physical fitness and financial aspects among others. No reason to be mad at those principles that are hard wired within all of us. Your husband may have been less forgiving in your aspects than others have been in similar circumstances, but hopefully that will be water under the bridge. Enjoy your improved self.

      Good luck, let me know how it goes.

    • Honestly I’d just lose the weight, get super hot and leave the bastard for a younger, hotter, less whiny model so he sees how it feels when no one cares about the inner you. See if a hottie will like his old sorry ass.

  6. Okay, so you’re saying that you marry women because of their appearance, get them pregnant which ruins their bodies, and then you want to leave because they can’t get the weight back off? That’s a dick move. Then you say that it’s okay for the guy to be fat. Sounds like a stupid double standard. If having an attractive person is the most important thing to you, then don’t marry, and don’t have kids or you’re beholden to a fat ugly slob for the rest of your life. News Flash: people get older and uglier, no changing that. Unless you’ve been pregnant, been through the medical conditions that can cause excess weight after pregnancy, then you don’t have room to talk. Personally, considering divorcing my spouse because I think that I’d be happier alone than dealing with the stupidity of men. He married me when I was fat. I know that he likes the skinny girls, so why he married me is beyond me. “Oh, women owe us to be beautiful and have sex with us.” Meanwhile, the man doesn’t help with chores or taking care of kids. He doesn’t work, his jobs consists of browsing the web all day unless he gets a tech call. OMG! Such hard work! I have to deal with the screaming kids that can’t be reasoned with, paying the bills, keeping the house spotless… Etc, and how do I get thanked for it? He wants someone younger and hotter. Marriage is a load of shit. And yes, I’ve completely changed my diet, and am working out 6 days a week, and my weight won’t budge. It’s frustrating. 1200 calories a day, and nothing to show for it.

    • Hey Annie you said ”’ Meanwhile, the man doesn’t help with chores or taking care of kids. He doesn’t work, his jobs consists of browsing the web all day unless he gets a tech call. OMG! Such hard work! I have to deal with the screaming kids that can’t be reasoned with, paying the bills, keeping the house spotless… Etc, and how do I get thanked for it? He wants someone younger and hotter.””

      WHO SAID ANYTHING ABOUT MONEY OR HELPING IN THE HOUSE?? YOU MARRIED THAT GUY!! You said that he married you fat. OK but you married him with his attitude and his Job/Unemployed. Here we talk about FAT. If you are a Fat woman, how the heck a normal Man could want to have sex with you?

      Do you know that when men look a sexy woman’s body they release a chemical in their brain like Cocaine??
      And when they look a Fat woman’s body they don’t produse this chemical BUT the part of their brain that is working is the part that messure size. Scientist make that experiment. Also womens mine doesn’t release this chemical when they look a fit man’s body. You can’t make your man want you if you are fat and if you have an attitude of a Dude. Period. Some Men have fetishes and maybe want a dominant fat woman. but not a normal man.

      • A normal man? So normal men only date/marry/like skinny women?
        Are you a Republican? Did you know Jesus was black?

        • @ Keegan Yes a NORMAL MAN. Normal men won’t choose a fat woman which is like a pig for sex. They will choose a normal weight or skinny woman for sex. This is my opinion. Like it or Not. Love is another story. You mention that Jesus was Black. I don’t care if he was Black or White, Red Or Yellow. Who cares about his color.

        • >Are you a Republican?

          What does being an intelligent and fisally responsible voter have to do with the sad state of affairs in which most men find themselves: legally bound to a disgusting, repulsive, waddling, complaining SOW? Or, is that only for Demorats and other such Ovomit-voting whining liberal fools?

      • …was earnestly reading this until I got up to ‘also women’s mine doesn’t release this chemical’ which made me 1) realize the author is obviously

        comedian, so I 2) went back to masturbating to my Channing Tatum DVD c

  7. You sound pretty shallow. That’s too bad. I respect other people, it’s obvious with your labeling and name calling, you don’t. Sorry Adolf. I have a very fat wife, and I am physically fit. She turns me on – I am stuck in the upright position whenever I am around her, and I’ve been married 20 years to her. Skinny, athletic women don’t turn me on. (sorry). But I won’t label them or call them names. She might not jog with me, or go biking, and I don’t sew or craft as she does, but we have an intimacy whenever we are together, wherever we go and whatever we’re doing together. It sounds like you will never achieve this type of satisfaction.

    • I married my husband when i was fat, im still fat now. His previous girls were thin/athletic. He’s a ‘normal guy’ and guess what? He married ME, not the skinny chicks. Previous poster John got it right. Love and marriage should be about so so much more than ‘oh my wife is too fat to poke with Mr. Happy, lemmie find some tiny bitch to stroke my ego’, a lasting commitment needs acceptance and attachment. With thoughts of fat=c’ya!, its no wonder the divorce rate is so high. We may be fat, but its clear who the real pigs are. Now squeal, mother fuckers.

      • “tiny bitch”? Wow! Was that necessary to make your point? Without this and your last comment, you could have had a semi convincing argument. Instead you just reinforced the author’s point. You obviously have no respect for yourself, hence your need to disparage a smaller, fitter woman as a “bitch.” I hope this attitude is serving you well, because it sure doesn’t read as thought it does.

  8. Don’t give me this beta boy bullshit. I have a fat wife and she was fat when I met her and she is even fatter now and I love her to no end. As for the respect thing; do you really think I give a shit if some little internet hero respects me for my choice in women or not? LMAO. You must be completely deluded if you think I do. Truthfully, if we were to meet in RL I would probably sooner spit on you as give you a second look. I’ve dealt with your kind many times before and I have the scars on my knuckles to prove it. BTW, they also have the false teeth, bent noses and skull x-rays to prove it as well. Self-important little people like you just crack me up LOL.

  9. ”’ I’ve dealt with your kind many times before and I have the scars on my knuckles to prove it. BTW, they also have the false teeth, bent noses and skull x-rays to prove it as well. Self-important little people like you just crack me up LOL.””

    HAHAHAHAHAHA!!! OK mr. Cain Velasquez. Don’t beat anyone else! hahahahaha!

  10. You’re an idiot.

  11. I’m not one to usually post opinions on stuff like this, but this article is THE most sexist, insensitive and small minded piece of BS I’ve ever read.

    I’m not overweight, but how dare you or anyone say that someone married to a plus size woman is a “pig lover”. Not only does that make you instantly unintelligent, but it also shows your level of immaturity. Any valid point you could have made (which there are ZERO) lost all credibility the moment you resorted to cruel and undeserved name calling.

    You mention the fat acceptance movement as if giving someone basic respect as a human is wrong. You justify this insanity by labeling it some newfangled method of enabling obese people, but in reality all you are doing is finding an excuse to fat shame the hell out of women, poison the minds of naive men and then wrap it up in a shiny marriage bow to pass it off as some weak attempt to “better” relationships.

    Marriage is supposed to built on love, respect and a deep connection with another person. It’s “for better or for worse” not “for better or until she gains 30 lbs.” There is a difference between being lovingly concerned for a person’s health and being a selfish, shallow person. You sir, are the latter.

    I’d rather spend the rest of my life in a fat suit than to spend a minute with a man like you.

    • > how dare you or anyone say that someone married to a plus size woman is a “pig lover”. Not only does that make you instantly unintelligent,

      Sowbelly, this has nothing to do with intelligence. It has to do with disgust for bit fat greasy slobs. I want to lose 25 pounds too.

  12. Yes I’m a pig. Yes I’m an idiot. I don’t care how any of you live your life. But I’m telling you that fatness is not a disease. It’s not cancer or rickets or tuberculosis. My mom is fat. Many of my relatives are. If anyone is “fat and happy”, and I mean there is no self loathing or anything, more power too them. But society looks down on you as weak because you are. There are (usually) major obstacles to lose weight, major weight, and to keep it off. No doubt. But there are also a million success stories. Step one is taking the time and using your willpower to educate yourself and execute better diet. This was intended as a tongue-in-cheek post on the fact that if one side of the couple has a body that is way different than their spouse (man or woman), there is likely attraction issues, possibly even resentment. They often still love their spouse, but a healthy marriage isn’t that healthy if you aren’t attracted to each other. If some people can’t find some nuggets of truth in that fact, they are just as small minded and ignorant as I allegedly am.

    I use this blog as a mind dump, and as I pay for the hosting fees and all that, I’ll say whatever I damn well please. With that said, if you aren’t a troll and are engaging in constructive discourse that disagrees with me, or my conclusions, I don’t mind leaving those responses up (like the one above mine). We can agree to disagree. And if my thoughts bother anyone so damn much, STOP READING and go find a feminist blog that tells you your a special snowflake, no matter your girth, appearance or ball-busting attitude.

  13. I guess the question i have is. What if your wife gets sick and is on steriods for RA or lupus and bedridden and can barely get out of the house and this combo will make her fat.
    That’s it then?
    Why if your hubby starts losing all of his hair and he is gaining more else where? What if one of you ends up with irritable bowel and ends up running to the bathroom all day long, not to sexy. What if one of you gets horribly difigured in a ar accident and is full of nasty scars? What of your spouse is diagnosed with manic depression and the medication used to control the disease almost makes them very fat-clozaril, anyone? What if your wife now suffers from dry eyes (can have vision correction surgery with dry eye problems) and can no longer wear contacts but instead wears these horrifically thick eyeglasses? What if your wifes boobs hang horribly after breastfeeding three kids? What if you spouse gets horrific rashes covering their body and medicine is poorly controlling the rash. What if your spouse gets burned in an accident and has melted skin on parts of their body? What if a spouse loses an eye, ear ,limb, etc. and it just looks gross? Let me add, i have never seen a sex 70 year old man or woman, IMHO. We all end up old and gross, reality. I guess the choice is to you stick it out with that person who is always going to look a bit older/uglier year after year or do you dump them and look for a hottie. Till their luster starts to wane… Rinse, repeat

    • Everything you said is an accident or out of their control. Eating to many twinkies and mcdonalds is very much in someone’s control.

  14. Married Too Young

    What if you did marry the Alpha Male persona? But he spent 22 years beating on you and convinced you after you were no longer a teenager he then had no use for you in the bedroom? He would rather look at Teen Porn then you. And the only time he wants to be intimate is if he is on something legal or illegal. Oh by the way the wife is only 38 and he is 50. Married her when she was 16 and he 28. Yes some us gain weight but some men also quit caring. They don’t want you after 25 and no longer get them attention from other alpha males. So you eat. He hits you then you eat. You find porn on his phone then you eat. Never money to buy anything and nothing like you wanted it to be. So food becomes your best friend. Face it men if you don’t want a “Fat Wife” then don’t push her to food. Be her comfort not the enemy. Believe me she already has enough enemies. Sometimes herself included.

  15. Lamont Cranston

    I remain amazed at the number of people who don’t understand that attraction is only a part of love.

    My wife has gained over 100 pounds since we married. I’m not happy about it. But I’m not going to leave her over it. I’m not having sex with her either. Fat is not attractive.

  16. I’ve been married 14 years. My wife has “let herself go”, and has gained about 75 pounds since we married. Our son is 13. It can’t be called baby fat anymore now that he is a teenager. It’s frustrating to me as I am a very physically fit and active middle age guy. I’m pretty much the same person as when we met! I told her very calmly about three years ago that, “I miss the girl I used to know”. That fell on deaf ears.

    So I have made a decision to “let myself go” too. No, I am not going to get fat and complacent, as I enjoy my running, tennis, and my general health far too much. I am in the process of growing my hair long, and not shaving! Let’s she how she likes being married to a ZZ Top band member!

    Bottom line, I want her to see how it feels to be married to someone who looks significantly different than planned…..

  17. My wife is looks like jabba the hut but smells worst. Her mother is tiny and looks like yoga I didn’t ever see her being so fat

  18. Ok I read this blog and a few others like it the other day and now it’s all I can think about. I married my husband 18 years ago when I was 18 he was 30, I was 5’9 and a very fit 150 lbs. I’m 200 now. Damn desk job… I assumed my husband was ok with it but now I’m starting to wonder. I go through phases where I drop 16 or 20 but have been in a slump the last year. I’m a harf worker in other areas, keep a clean house, good care of the kids, cook , well educates and make over 100 K per year. I think perhaps I have used this as justification for my complacency. I started working out again and am vowing to ger down to at least 165. I wonder how many other men feel this way bit don’t say anything. Love my husband to pieces (have a very active bedroom life also). Woild hate for this to ever get between us.

  19. It’s funny how the level of fat hate has reached all-time highs while for the most part stemming for the under 30 crowd (Generation X-large) which by the way is fattest most out of shape generation in the history of the world. As I see it blogs like this are nothing more than islands of self-deprecation hidden under a thick façade of hate and attention whoring. I’m sorry that you and your fellow millennials and gen Y pork butts are all torqued up over your flabby out of shape selves but do the rest of us have to see it and read about everywhere we go on the net? If you little fat cunts really want to combat your ever expanding waistlines then you will need to get over yourselves and step away from your keyboards, cell phones and I-pad and do a few push-ups. Stop shoving your faces full of McDonalds crap and hot pockets and try a salad now and then.

    In case you don’t get what I’m saying I’ll spell it out in plain English for you wooden headed dorks. Your women and your wives are FAT because your whole damn generations are a bunch of fat fucks. You were raised to be lazy, electronic addicted, Oreo munching, pigs and as we can all see, you are living up to expectations. Maybe instead of bitching and attention whoring about the issue you could actually get off your big fat cellulite riddled butts and do something to improve yourselves. Maybe then the rest of us won’t have to see blogs like this piece of shit.

    • Grade A+ Rant Ironhead Jones! Well done, I’d like to see more of you here, and think you should be a blogger..I would read.

    • > Your women and your wives are FAT because your whole damn generations are a bunch of fat fucks.

      AAA. LOL!
      I see these hippos daily in the grocery or hardware store. Some poor thin married dork walking along while the enormous blubbered SOW waddles and wheezes along beside. I look sideways and wince, and mutter to myself, “You poor prick. How’d you get stuck with that fat fuckin’ SLOB?”

      Also annoying: the huge fat fucks blocking the aisles with “mobility scooters”. Check out South Park episode of Cartman on his fat fuck scooter!

  20. Wow??? Im plus size Im 200 lbs ive lost 115lbs and most of u are saying that because im over wieght that im a ugly pig and my husband will divorce me? Hes bitching now because ive lost so much weight!!! Hahahaha its making him insecure! But still the point is im still over weight and because im over wieght im a ugly pig right? Hahaha! Im confidant , bold , working to get my rn and beautiful! Ur a reject! U must be one skinny ugly smelly loser! Let me see a pic of u! I got planty to show my beauty let me see ur fb! Hahahaha

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