Ok, my 3:30 am wake-up time isn’t exactly making me feel real chipper for a long post this evening, so I’ll simply let you wives in on a little secret so that your man can be happy.
What we husbands need to be extremely happy with their wives (and subsequently satisfied in their marriage and willing to overlook most faults) is this… appreciation and frequent-enough sex with an enthusiastic partner.
1) We battle the urban jungle to provide for our family. We wage war on competitors to take care of our brood. We pitch in to help inside the house while still mastering our domain of the house exterior. What do we ask for these sacrifices? Simple appreciation for our efforts. “Husband dear, I really appreciate the fact that you mowedlaundriedcleanedwashedkids. You are the best dad and husband a wife could ask for. I sure am lucky” with a sweet smile and a kiss (and a crotch grab for good measure) will earn you +1_million points to him.
2) While we appreciate maintenance sex, and will occasionally accept dead fish sex as only hungry men will do, what we really want is frequent-enough sex with a partner that is really into the act. She’s writhing against your hammer, moving to her own song. The excitement of the man she loves, loving her, is too much to handle. Be vocal. Move. Have fun. Grab his butt. Lick his ear. Suck his power animal. Scratch his back. Talk dirty to him. Make him feel like you’re totally into the moment. Fun, exciting sex is really fucking awesome. Play your part to make it happen, communicate if needed if the Captain isn’t playing his part. Work together so you both get what you want, what you need, so that you can both enjoy sexy times to the fullest. And how often is enough? No right answer, but enough so your man is satisfied and you’re not too sore. Some days life gets in the way, but don’t go too long without sex. Frequent sex begets frequent sex. Infrequent sex results in miscommunication and awkward moments. His demeanor (and yours) should be very positive if he’s (you’re) getting laid enough.
That is all married men want from their wives. Period. Exclamation point. Now go on and be prosperous in your marriage.